You have feelings, emotions too! Know that you also have sensuality in your body, you do have passion, intuition, wisdom in your system. You probably don’t allow yourself to act “feminine” because that’s not what a “real” man should do. And don’t be afraid: the monster you think to see isn’t there anyway.Ĭonditioning from your past/childhood is severely limiting your life. To let you see what you call “bad/dark/undesirable” is an inherent part of you/life. Tantra invites you to grow in consciousness. So what if you would embrace your dark side too? Pushing your “bad” sides away doesn’t help you much.
Enjoy the full package – all qualitiesĪs said Tantra accepts everything. It brings your self-esteem and the power to be yourself: anytime, any place. Later on, I will talk about meditations you can do: heart meditation is one of the best tantric meditations I know. Just breathing, focussing on your heart (chakra) brings you to the source: the love that you are. Well, Tantra tells you that you ARE ok just the way you are. I had this feeling that I wasn’t okay, had to perform to be acceptable. It was a protecting mask, protecting the uncertainty in me. Until then I had this “ego-air” of “you can’t touch me” around me. The best thing Tantra did for me was opening my heart. Tantra for (single) men – self-love is key So I got to get used to, to see it as a quality AND take advantage of it. Tantra taught me that everything is also in me. But men are from Mars and women are from Venus (?)… I never understood women, could not connect, deal with the emotional chaos that sometimes arises.
I suppose, that being straight or gay, the opposite male/female energy will always be like a strong magnet pooling you closer. I am having a very satisfying love life now. Tantra taught me to relax and be natural in sex. No need anymore to suppress or unconsciously indulging in sex. Tantra learned me that there is nothing wrong with my sexuality, that it’s all okay. As an adolescent, I was thought to suppress my sexuality. Tantra learned me the secret to fulfillment (see next).Įspecially when I was single, my unfulfilled sexuality needs frustrated me. It took a long time before I could see that the frustration it caused was all in my mind, my self doing.
When I was alone I yearned for a partner, and when I had a partner I wanted to be alone, free from attachment. Luckily I found one, but basically, that didn’t matter. From an early age on I was looking for a partner. It took me a long time to be able to be alone and happy. From frustration to fulfillmentĮverybody is looking for connection. I hope it will be, at least, support for you.
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